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I'm Leaving New York.
Because growth sometimes means choosing the right soil.
Last week our jade plant flowered.
If you’ve never seen one bloom, that’s because it’s rare. Jade plants only flower when they’re thriving. In Feng Shui, they symbolize prosperity and alignment. A bloom is considered a sign you’re entering a new season of abundance.
We bought it from the farmer’s market months ago. It was in bad shape. We brought it home and placed it outside on our porch.
It's easy to believe there's no such thing as being in the right place. That with enough hard work, grit, and luck, you can make it anywhere. And maybe that's true. But there are also places that make it easier to do the work, easier to put in those extra hours, easier for you to bloom.

Recently, we decided to spend more time next year living close to my family. Although we were committed, we still had doubts about leaving New York.
Then, we spent Thanksgiving with Jon's parents. Watching them with Summer reminded us what it feels like to have an extra pair of hands. Now that both Jon and I are entrepreneurs, even one extra hour makes a difference. Having someone else there to help meant we could take a few extra moments to focus on our work, to be present with each other, to breathe.
In that same week, our jade plant flowered, and we finally found subletters to take over our New York lease.
It was a sigh of relief.
These small signs make me feel like we're moving in the right direction. That moving out of New York to live near my parents for half the year is the place where Jon, Summer, and I need to be in order to bloom.
Women in particular are inundated with messages about empowerment that conflate independence with not asking for help. My parents didn't live close to their parents. Most people I know don't live close to theirs. We're taught that being the CEO of your life means doing it alone.

Thanksgiving with Jon’s family.
But no one does anything alone. You can be the CEO of your life and get support from your family.
When I'm with my parents, time freezes. My mom cooks my favorite breakfast. Sometimes I spent the whole day in my pyjamas. Being home feels like being wrapped in a warm blanket.
I've spent ten years in New York saying yes to everything and everyone. That season was about foraging. It was about exploring far and wide to discover the divine purpose of my life.
This next season is about developing that divine purpose.
It’s about cultivation.
Sometimes you need to leave the nest to grow. Then, other times, you return so you can grow into what comes next.
There’s no one place or one way that’s right for everyone.
Plant yourself wherever the conditions are right for the season you’re in.
Sign up for waitlist.
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We Want to Hear from You 🌸
As part of our community, we want to hear what you need to bloom!
We're running a community assessment survey through the end of the year to find out what you’d like to cultivate at SheFi. Take five minutes to fill it out.
Your answers will shape what we build together in 2026.
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Decentraland Music Festival ✨
We’d love to invite you to the Decentraland Music Festival, taking place December 3–6. It’s four days of stream-native performances, digital fashion drops, and creator-built stages and experiences.
Across the festival you can:
Catch headline shows on the Main and Live stages.
Collect eight live Wearable drops that fall from the sky during major sets, plus free gifts hidden around the festival plaza.
Explore more than a dozen immersive builds shaped by internet culture and streaming.
Visit Party Pads hosted by communities including HAPE, Psychedelics Anonymous, aKIDcalledBEAST, MusicaW3, Newtro Arts and RAD TV.
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SheFi’s Crypto News Roundup 🏇
This Week in Crypto: SheFi Edition 🪩
Kalshi’s breakout. Kalshi’s new raise pushed its valuation to $11B, making cofounder Luana Lopes Lara the youngest self-made woman billionaire.
Monad launches. Monad mainnet is live, with MON trading and early apps already shipping.
Vanguard opens the door. Vanguard now lets clients trade crypto-linked ETFs like Bitcoin, XRP, and Solana.
Grayscale stays bullish. Grayscale says Bitcoin could hit new highs in 2026 despite the current volatility.
✨ SheFi Takeaway: New leaders, new rails, and big institutions are moving in. The next cycle is being built right now.
Follow our socials for more updates!
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SheFi Quests 📜
Completing quests is one of the best ways to make the most of your SheFi journey! You’ll receive a confirmation email once your quest is successfully submitted.
Quest 1: Follow our sponsors
Quest 2: Download Brave Browser
Quest 3: Create your wallet with Base
Quest 4: Create your first post on base
Quest 5: Join Decentraland
Quest 6: Add Endaoment Mini App and Donate!
NEW Quest: Connect Your Brave Wallet to Brave Rewards
Celebrating SheFi Successes 🎉
Vaishnavi was selected for Social Summer of Code and is currently a Campus Ambassador at E-Cell IIT Bombay and Techfest IIT Bombay.
👉️ Share your wins so we can celebrate them 👈️
SheFi & Crypto Events 🌎
Going to ETHCC, Token2049 or Devcon? Join our Global Events Telegram Chat: https://t.me/shefisummit
SheFi Events:
12/4 Miami Beach: Exclusive Founders & VIP Preview — Nolcha Immersive Basel Edition: RSVP here
SheFi joins Nolcha’s Immersive Adventure as M2 Theatre in Miami transforms into a multi-sensory world of art, performance, and blockchain culture.
12/10 Warsaw: SheFi Warsaw Christmas Edition 🎄: RSVP here
Join us for our second SheFi Warsaw gathering as we bring together the top women in web3 and fintech to celebrate the miracles of 2025 and set bold wishes for 2026.
Community Events:
12/3 Bengaluru: IBW Afterparty 2025 by Polygon, Bitget and Hashed Emergent: RSVP here
12/3 Bengaluru: CHAI WITH SKATE!!!: RSVP here
12/3 Warsaw: Kraken & Solana Superteam '25 Celebration: RSVP here
12/3 Dubai: Coffee & AMGs with Binance Alpha projects: RSVP here
12/4 Dubai: THE INNER CIRCLE – A BBW Afterparty: RSVP here
12/7 Miami: THE QUEENS* GATHERING @ BITBASEL MIAMI ART WEEK: RSVP here
12/7 Santa Catarina: TYPED: The Formal Verification Roundtable: RSVP here
12/11 Abu Dhabi: SheRocks: RSVP here
We’re bringing together the women driving the future of tech, Web3, and entrepreneurship. A networking soirée redefining what it means to connect.
12/12 Abu Dhabi: Beachpoint Mixer | Yas Island: RSVP here
12/17 Berlin: Christmas Party by Solana: RSVP here
12/18 Munchen: SheFi x TUM Blockchain Club – Christmas Party 🎄: RSVP here
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