I used to believe that if I wasn’t perfect, people would leave me.

We all tell ourselves a limiting lie. A story that plays on repeat in the back of our minds. “If only I was–fill in the blank–prettier, smarter, curvier, skinner, bolder, quieter…I would be loved”.

All these limiting lies are based on the biggest lie of all: that in order to be loved, we need to be someone other than who we are right now.

The morning of SheFi summit, I paced around my AirBnB in Buenos Aires trying to memorize my opening speech, Summer screaming while Jon changed her diaper,.

"Just wing it," Jon offered.

"Not helpful," I snapped.

Summer fussed in the car. I ran through my opening lines again. Jon–bless him–didn't try to fix my nerves. He handed me water. He showed up.

As soon as I walked into the venue, my shoulders fell. I relaxed. Ela and Naomi bustled around the greenhouse where our sponors Octant, Avalanche, and Celo had set up their displays. The next minute, they sorted out the breakfast table. I blinked and the main stage was ready for action.

I didn't have to think about logistics once.

All I did was show up. 

And you did too.

This was the first SheFi summit where, even after the last talk, so many of you lingered in the courtyard to continue conversations you had started in the morning, to meet the people you hadn’t yet met, and to soak up the very last drop of high frequency SheFi vibes.

This summit was perfectly imperfect. I ultimately read parts of the opening speech from my phone. One of our panelists showed up late to her talk. I bounced Summer on my lap for my final interview with Jon.

These details that, in the past, I would've been reviewing in my head for days afterwards now feel like exactly what they are: life.

Life does not conform to your schedule. It shows up late, it loses the keys to your apartment, it throws a tantrum in the middle of your big speech, and on and on.

I used to see these moments as life getting in the way.

Life doesn't get in the way. Life is the way.

Life is so much easier in community. I didn't feel embarrassed about reading off of my phone because I trust that my community will love me no matter what. I don't need to have a perfectly memorized speech to give the keynote. I don’t need to be perfect at anything to share it.

And neither do you.

When we are surrounded by people who truly support us, we can show up exactly as we are.

I'm so grateful for everyone who showed up—all our sponsors, our speakers, our volunteers, our chapter leads, for my team Ela and Naomi, and my dad, Summer, and Jon. I’m so grateful for everyone who engaged with the POAPs, everyone who introduced themselves to someone they didn’t know, and everyone who pushed themselves to learn something new. And I’m grateful for everyone who couldn’t make it but was following on socials or with us in spirit.

Thank you for being in SheFi.

Thank you for being exactly who you are.

SheFi Summit Buenos Aires Recap

November 16 was a day we’ll never forget. ✨

The talks were inspiring, the room was full, the merch was a hit, and the energy was pure SheFi — warm, electric, and unforgettable.

Not an Ordinary Women’s Meetup

Most women’s events in crypto are panels or mixers — great for visibility, but sometimes lacking real connection. That’s why we’re doing things differently at #DuneCon25 this November.

Hosted by Dune x SheFi and led by inspiring women, this isn’t just another networking event. It’s a space for real conversations, genuine connection, and collective growth.

Event starts today. Get your tickets now!

SheFi Friendsgiving

An evening of gratitude, good energy, and SheFi sisterhood — plus a cozy dinner + book exchange. 💫

Bring a story you love, leave with a new one.

San Francisco | Nov 20 | 4–6:30PM

Limited spots — RSVP early!

SheFi’s Crypto News Roundup 🏇 

This Week in Crypto: SheFi Edition 🪩

• Market slides again. Crypto lost another chunk of value with Bitcoin dipping under 90K. Sentiment is cautious and liquidity is thin.

• SEC plans token categories. The SEC is working on a clear classification system for digital assets. This could finally settle the securities vs. commodities confusion.

• Devconnect energy stays strong. Despite the downturn, Devconnect brought huge builder momentum. Infra teams, L2s and app founders showed up focused and unfazed by price.

✨ SheFi Takeaway: Prices are shaky but builders are not. The edge comes from staying close to the people and protocols shipping real products.

Follow our socials for more updates!

SheFi Quests 📜

Completing quests is one of the best ways to make the most of your SheFi journey! You’ll receive a confirmation email once your quest is successfully submitted.

• Quest 1: Follow our sponsors

• Quest 2: Download Brave Browser (Sponsor Quest)

• Quest 3: Create your wallet with Base (Sponsor Quest)

• Quest 4: Create your first post on base (Sponsor Quest)

• Quest 5: Join Decentraland (Sponsor Quest)

SheFi & Crypto Events 🌎

Going to ETHCC, Token2049 or Devcon? Join our Global Events Telegram Chat: https://t.me/shefisummit

SheFi events:

• 11/20 San Francisco: SheFi Friendsgiving: RSVP here

Other events:

• 11/19 Buenos Aires: Startup Palacio | Supermoon, TON @ Devconnect: RSVP here

• 11/19 Buenos Aires: Funding the Commons: Buenos Aires 2025: RSVP here

• 11/19-20 Singapore: What the Fraud Summit: RSVP here

• 11/22 India: Nerds Meetup: RSVP here

• 11/23 Buenos Aires: Integration Workshop - Tarot, Journaling & Yoga: RSVP here

• 11/25 Dublin: The DeFi Report Dublin: Inaugural Meetup: RSVP here

• 11/26 Barcelona: Decode Travel Hackathon: RSVP here

• 11/26 Berlin: Female Finance: Unlocking Potential to Shape Financial Wellbeing: RSVP here

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