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Love Thy Enemy.
Responding to Online Attacks with Kindness
On Friday morning, I came across a tweet that attacked the SheFi community.
When I see something like that, which is more regularly than I’d like to admit, I always get an involuntary physical response.
There’s always fear in that moment: “Oh my gosh. What if this goes viral? What if people feel the same way? Do people think we’re dumb? Are we dumb?”
Getting attacked turns your worldview upside-down if only for a brief second, and makes you question everything. Suddenly, you’re alone.
In that moment I put down my phone and went for a walk, letting the hurt move through me. This was a woman I know. A coworker of mine from my Consensys days. I remember supporting her when one of our male coworkers was treating her poorly.
That made her comment cut more deeply than usual.
And by usual, I mean someone tries to attack SheFi about every 6 months. One woman made an entire YouTube rant about me last year. Another woman went on a LinkedIn diatribe calling me a “malicious extractor” before she was kindly reminded by many, many SheFi alums how positive our program is. There are countless smaller digs, attacks, and criticisms that I’ve had to bear over the years.
I don’t ever respond to insults publicly. I don’t think less of these people. I simply find it sad.
A mentor once told me: “If you try to prove yourself to someone, you’re giving up your power.”
My commitment to myself has always been to stay in my values, rather than changing my values for the situation at hand.
My commitments are to:
Lead with kindness
Give people grace
And be comfortable with being unliked
It’s not every woman’s job on Earth to like SheFi’s mission. In fact, an inevitable part of standing for something is finding out that people dislike what you stand for, even if what you stand for is (in your eyes) positive, necessary, and impactful.
As a founder, I’ve learned that “mean comments” don’t hurt any less now than they did in 2020 when I started SheFi.
The only thing that has changed is that I move through the hurt more quickly. My resilience isn’t immunity to pain, it’s the speed with which I get over it.
If you are building something, know this: you will be tested. Some people will not like you. But it’s not your job to be liked by everyone. It’s your job to be consistent in your commitments, true to your values, and courageous in spirit, even in the most difficult situations.
Our goal at SheFi is to be the kindest corner on the internet. That’s my commitment.
So know that whatever you’re working on, I and the SheFi community are with you.
I see the sad pattern of women tearing down women again and again. And it’s my mission to rewrite the narrative that women need to tear each other down to succeed. If this or something similar has ever happened to someone you know, forward this letter to them.
“But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” — Matthew 5:44
With Love,
Maggie Love
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Attending Token2049? Come to SheFi Summit Singapore 🇸🇬
Oh, we are so back.
SheFi Summit is coming to Singapore. 💫 🇸🇬
Join us October 3 for iconic panels, unmatched networking, delicious drinks and bites, fabulous merch, and even a morning coffee rave.
What day is SheFi Summit Singapore? It’s October 3rd. 🔥
Link to (limited!) tickets in thread. Get them while they’re hot!
— Jul ✨ Words girl | SheFi global (@wordsgirljul)
9:15 AM • Sep 8, 2025
Yes, you read that right.
Kick off with a Morning Coffee Rave w/ DJ Miss Lil, featured in Vogue. She’s the co-founder of Singapore’s Sivilian Affairs collective, and DJ coach for women and nonbinary folks. Caffeine, beats, and connection to start things on the perfect vibe.
Pop by the Builder Stage for presentations of projects and talks crafted for developers and founders. Real ideas, real tools, no fluff.
And don’t miss out on the Community Stage where sponsors, creators, marketers, and ecosystem leaders share their insights on what’s next for Web3.
Of course, food is provided. Have lunch by Super Loco, because great conversations happen over great food). 🌮
Then get hands-on with sponsors’ activations, join intimate workshops, and connect with people who could shape your next move.
Finally, enjoy drinks by the river to start the weekend.
What are you waiting for? If you’re going to Token2049, SheFi Summit Singapore is a no-brainer. Get your tickets now!
A MASSIVE thank you to our sponsor Matcha for partnering with us on this iconic event. 🍵
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Don’t let FOMO get the best of you.
The timeline takeover will be here before you know it.
See you October 3!
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The Most Iconic Graduation EVER 🎓️
Did you join us for our Season 14 graduation party in Decentraland?
It was OUT. OF. THIS. WORLD. 🌎️ 💫
Thank you to the hundreds of folks who came out and danced with us.
Just check out some of the highlights below:
So amazing to be celebrating @shefiorg with all these ladies!!! Listening to @LosCat__ in @decentraland !!
— Canessa 💫💫 (@CanessaDCL)
2:13 PM • Sep 9, 2025
Crazy numbers in @decentraland with DJ @LosCat__ right now 🔥
Congratulations to @shefiorg girlys— hayzSapiens 🎮📡 (@hayzweb3)
2:27 PM • Sep 9, 2025
So proud to be a part of the @shefiorg Season 14 Cohort. Lots of love to @maggielove_ thank you for holding space for us in the Web3 space. ❤️✨
Peep me at Season 14 graduation live @decentraland !
— The DevOps Wife (@thedevopswife)
2:36 PM • Sep 9, 2025
🎓✨ @shefiorg Session 14 Graduation Party! ✨🎉
What an incredible journey this has been! From the very first session to today, I’ve had the privilege of learning, growing, and sharing with the most brilliant, inspiring, and powerful women. 💜
A huge THANK YOU to @maggielove_
— Juanita Jaramillo R▕⃝⃤ (@JuanitaJaramill)
2:42 PM • Sep 9, 2025
✨Congrats to all @shefiorg graduating today!!
#Decentraland#DCL#DCLFam#Web3
— Skat Lionrock (@SkatLionrock)
2:47 PM • Sep 9, 2025
It's @shefiorg graduation day in @decentraland Congratulations to everyone 👏🏾 🙌🏾 Loving my @shefiorg jumpsuit ❤️✨️and the DJ @LosCat__ is amazing had to show off my dance moves on the dance floor 🤭😅
— ✨️ree.shefi.eth✨️ (@LetzCreateA)
2:49 PM • Sep 9, 2025
It’s SheFi Graduation day!!
And we’re live @decentraland
Our DJ is absolutely killing it 🔥 shoutout to @LosCat__ for turning this into a real party 💜— augusthottie.shefi.sui 💧 (@augusthottie)
2:53 PM • Sep 9, 2025
graduation party in @decentraland now just saved my life, im deddd
it's spiritual, babe
🏹💖😭💃✨🪩💫
— florence h 🌹 (@florence_xyz)
2:58 PM • Sep 9, 2025
8 weeks, countless lessons, and a community that feels like family. 🎓🖤
Huge thanks to @maggielove_ and the entire @shefiorg crew for making this journey unforgettable.
From ZK learnings to celebrating on Decentraland. Here’s to growth, friendship, and futures we’re building— MIDE 🦋 (@Mide_Onchain)
3:02 PM • Sep 9, 2025
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Based in Brooklyn 💙
If you’re debating on attending SheFi Summit Singapore, we have something that may totally convince you.
Just take a glimpse at the vibes of a SheFi event.
Last week in Brooklyn, we got together for an intimate evening of connection, conversation, light bites, iconic merch, and high vibes.
SheFi Summit Singapore will be exactly that, except taken to the next level.
Not to mention the recent success of our SheFi Showcase in Accra, another beautiful community-led event.
But we don’t need to tell you why you should get a ticket.
We can show you.
Check out these pics below. 🫶










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SheFi’s Crypto News Roundup 🏇
Stay up to date with your friends at SheFi! We’ve curated this week’s Web3 tea below.
18 Popular Code Packages Hacked. At least 18 popular JavaScript code packages that are collectively downloaded more than two billion times each week were briefly compromised with malicious software, after a developer involved in maintaining the projects was phished. They’ve since been contained.
Ethereum ETFs Shed $788M Over Four Days in Institutional Exodus. U.S. spot Ethereum exchange-traded funds suffered a four-day outflow streak totaling $787.6 million last week, marking one of the most severe capital flights since the products launched.
Robinhood’s S&P 500 Debut Extends Crypto’s Reach to Index Investors. Robinhood joins Coinbase in the S&P 500, expanding crypto access for index funds, pensions and institutions amid rising institutional interest.
DeepSnitch AI Surges to Almost $200k as Bitcoin Nears $113K. DeepSnitch AI is gaining traction with presale volumes nearing $200,000, positioning itself as a potential leader in crypto-AI convergence.
Nasdaq Hits Record! Markets climbed, with the Nasdaq reaching an all-time high, as attention turns to economic indicators that could influence Fed policy.
Follow our socials for more updates!
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CoinEasy is an all-in-one platform for Web3 communities and crypto education, helping projects successfully enter and grow in the Korean market.

We are super excited to be partnering with them on this incredibly fun event!
It’s taking place September 25th. Don’t miss out!
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— maggie.shefi.eth (@maggielove_)
3:09 PM • Jul 28, 2025
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