You Can't Prepare for Birth. I Did Anyway.

Preparing for the Unknown. Plus April Fool's recap, crypto news + SheFi events.

When I first announced I was pregnant, I found myself at dinner with Jon and some friends, nervously excited about everything I didn’t yet know.

I told them I’d been diving into birth stories, so curious, trying to learn what I could. That’s when our friend Sally—rock climber, fearless leader, and total badass—looked me dead in the eye and said:

“You can’t prepare for birth.”

Oh, really?

Now, I get it. Birth is one of those cosmic experiences you can’t rehearse, predict or simulate. And how to handle it is a personal choice.

But to not be curious about it? Not learn or prepare in any way? I fully disagreed.

Because I believe you can prepare for anything. Not by predicting the outcome. But by deciding how you want to show up throughout the journey. 

And I wanted to show up fully – armed with knowledge. 

Sally’s comment didn’t stop me. It stoked my curiosity even more. 

So I got down to work – like I was learning DeFi all over again. I read 6 books on birth, with hits like Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth and Transformed By Birth. I listened to every kind of birth story I could find. I meditated, stretched, prioritized sleep, and spent hours researching the physiology of birth and the powerful hormones guiding it. I learned about my body. I learned about the power of all women.

I made it my mission to feel strong, aware, and empowered — no matter how unpredictable it all would be.

Because it’s not about controlling birth’s wild ride. It’s about feeling prepared to ride its waves.

Of course, the outcome may be uncertain. I won’t fully know what birth is like until I actually experience it. And like we talked about in the last newsletter – I can feel totally prepared, and still absolutely not ready. 

But it’s just like when you take the leap into learning crypto – you don’t know when you’ll get your first Web3 gig. Or when things will finally “click.”

That doesn’t mean you can’t prepare yourself in the meantime, showing up fully for the journey. 

But how do you prepare for the unpreparable? 

It’s simple. 

You learn. You get curious. You arm yourself with knowledge. You listen to and share stories. You ask questions. You show up.

Whenever you’re learning, you are preparing – for whatever’s coming next. 

And anyone can learn anything. This belief is what SheFi is built on. 

Back in 2019, I started my journey into DeFi with some whitepapers and a mountain of curiosity. I didn’t know if others would want to learn with me. I just knew that empowering myself through education would take me somewhere meaningful.

And it did. It led to SheFi. It led to all of you.

Because these in-between experiences — the learning, the doing, the figuring-it-out —are so much more than a means to an end. Yes, being a founder and being a mother are beautiful destinations. But we often forget every moment it takes to get there: the preparation, the questions, the mistakes, the lessons, the growth.

Tomorrow marks the end of SheFi Season 13.

In the course of 8 weeks, over 2,000 women learned all about blockchain, empowering themselves with a technological education some thought wouldn’t be possible. They’re more prepared than ever to enter the world of Web3 with confidence.

But remember: the learning doesn’t end here.

Learning never ends.

When we keep following our curiosities, absorbing information, and mindfully educating ourselves, our life’s journey becomes just as rewarding as any destination. 

SheFi’s Crypto News Roundup 🏇 

We’re keeping you in the know when it comes to all things crypto and AI! Here are some exciting updates from the past few weeks:

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April Fool’s Takes Over the Timeline 😜 

Were you fooled this week?

Brands all across crypto Twitter celebrated April 1st with some good old fashioned pranks. SheFi, of course, had to participate…

But this only scratches the surface! JokeRace, Serotonin, Arbitrum, and so many more all got in on the fun.

Which ad was your favorite? Or did you get totally tired of the branded jokes way too quickly?

Either way, we hope your April is off to a funny and fantastic start!

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Join Us for Metaverse Fashion Week 👗 

Metaverse Fashion Week returns to Decentraland on April 9 - 12!

We’re experiencing a shifting fashion landscape characterized by declining traditional luxury sales and evolving consumer preferences. Want in on the future of fashion? 👇️ 

MVFW 2025 highlights digital fashion's growing relevance as a meaningful response to these industry transformations. Under this year's theme, "Infinite Identities," more than 47 global designers and brands leverage digital mediums to challenge creative boundaries and articulate nuanced cultural identities.

Jump in for 4 full days of action:

  • 6 iconic runway shows

  • 8 live VIP panels

  • 16 Designer showrooms

  • Over 22 digital fashion collectibles to claim throughout the event.

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SheFi & Crypto Events 🌎

Going to ETHCC, Token2049 or Devcon? Join our Global Events Telegram Chat: https://t.me/shefisummit

  • 2/12-4/30 Virtual: Hack The Grid: RSVP here

  • 4/3 Virginia: BASED DMV - Community Meet Up and Build on BASE + Farcaster Friday on a Thursday: RSVP here

  • 4/4 Virtual: Yield Farming Roundtable - Advanced Tools: Details on Mighty Networks and Discord

  • 4/5 London: LPB 25 - London, Paris, Berlin multi-modal AI Launch Event: RSVP here

  • 4/5-6 Paris: Register for the Paris Blockchain Week Hackathon 2025 – Onsite Edition: Fill out this form

  • 4/9 Paris: Bitcoin & Brews at Paris Blockchain Week: RSVP here

  • 4/14 London: Agentic AI & Beyond: The Future of Intelligence & Web3: RSVP here

  • 4/16 LA: NFTLA Week Anchor Summit @ Superchief Gallery | Downtown LA: RSVP here

  • 4/30-5/1 Dubai: TOKEN 2049: RSVP here

  • 5/20-22 London: Avalanche Summit London: SheFi members get a 15% off for GA tickets

  • Want to volunteer at ETHTaipei? Apply here and put SheFi / Maggie Love in the referral box

  • OPPORTUNITY FOR THOSE IN LONDON TO REP SHEFI! More info in the SheFi Hub

  • Ethereum Name Service (ENS) is looking for some UX testers, more info in the SheFi Hub

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